AA teaches people to blame themselves or look for faults in themselves when things don't work out the way that they want them to.
You can't always blame yourself. Sometimes, bad things happen, and sometimes we just followed bad advice, but all things work together are good to those who love God.
No matter what the embarrasing situation may be, you can't always blame yourself.
Bad things happen, but God makes all things work together for good (Romans 8:28).
Sometimes, bad things happen.
I remember what a counselor told me, how I shouldn't condemn myself just because something bad happens or there's a mishap.